In this short book Jean–Claude Kaufmann offers a fresh account of the history of a feeling unlike any other. The modern idea of love as passion was born in the 12th century but it was marginalized by the rise of a kind of instrumental, calculating reason that became increasingly central to modern societies. As calculating reason began to encroach on the personal domain, many individuals sought to escape from it, searching for happiness elsewhere. As our societies become dominated by calculating reason and selfish individualism, we search elsewhere for the kind of happy love that will heal all our wounds. This is why we experience so many changes of heart in our personal lives: at times we are coldly calculating and then, a few moments later, we sacrifice ourselves to love without a second thought.
Written by one of France′s leading sociologists, this highly readable book sheds new light on love and happiness and will resonate with many readers.
Anthropology Review Database
"As sociologists have discovered the centrality of emotions as organizers of social life, Jean–Claude Kaufmann has emerged as the most insightful student of how romantic life is shaped through 'sentimental education.' In
The Curious History of Love, Kaufmann succeeds in demonstrating that love has been shaped through historical contingencies and contemporary expectations. Focusing on how women experience this most curious sensation – the tingly experience that we call love – Kaufmann draws from history and from personal stories to produce a lively and astute analysis that speaks to the emotional economy as a source of joy and pain."
Gary Alan Fine, Northwestern University