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Stakeholder Whispering. Uncover What People Need Before Doing What They Ask. Edition No. 1

  • Book

  • 256 Pages
  • April 2025
  • John Wiley and Sons Ltd
  • ID: 6029719

Learn to uncover what your managers, clients, customers and other stakeholders need before doing what they ask

People don't know what they need. The wants we communicate to others are shaped by our subconscious and the familiar, and limited by what we think is possible. But they don't always reflect our actual needs.

In Stakeholder Whispering: Uncover What People Need Before Doing What They Ask, author Bill Shander demonstrates how to get from your stakeholders' "order" - what they're asking for - to what they really need. You'll learn how to uncover the needs and desires of your clients, colleagues, bosses, customers, and other stakeholders based on what they ask for and how they ask for it, and how to deliver products and services that meet those needs.

Inside the book:

  • Help your stakeholders accomplish their goals and make the best decisions possible by helping them see what they really need
  • Shift from executing on tactics driven by others' commands, to strategic action driven by underlying needs
  • Transform your organization from one filled with "order-takers" into one where people work collaboratively to meet goal-oriented requirements

Perfect for managers, executives, and other business leaders, Stakeholder Whispering will also earn a place on the bookshelves of entrepreneurs, founders, designers, product and project managers, UX experts, data and business analysts, and anyone else hoping to better meet the expectations of their coworkers, managers, clients, and customers.

Table of Contents

Preface vii

Whisper While You Work xi

WHAT & WHY 1

Nothing Is As It Seems 3

More Rolling Stones, Less Coldplay 14

Everything Is UX 21

Who Are You? 31

HOW IDEAS 35

You Belong 37

Just Asking Questions 47

Useful Paranoia 54

Kill the Cat 59

Can You Hear Me Now? 65

A Rigid and Flexible Process 72

Peeling the Stakeholder Onion 81

HOW HANDS-ON 89

How to Run a Therapy Session 91

I Feel You 99

Starting Broad, Digging Deep 107

Chunky Segmentation 120

Gained in Translation 126

The Art of the (Im)Possible 131

Bobbing for Apples 139

Silence Is Golden 144

Good Questions 151

Turn It Around 157

Whispering En Masse 163

Let’s Talk About Bias, Baby 173

What It’s Really All About 179

Trouble 181

When You Know You’re Done 191

NOW WHAT 199

Prequalifying Whisperability 201

Influence Without Authority 207

Final Thoughts, Including Some Love for the Stakeholders 218

Index 223

Authors

Bill Shander